1. Do you have a gut feeling that your loved one may be having an affair?
 

2. Are they working longer hours than before?

3. Has there been a decrease/increase in sexual intimacy?

4. Have they started hitting the gym to change their personal appearance?

5. Do they leave home or go outside to talk on the telephone?

6. Do they become defensive when you express concerns about your marriage?

7. Do they become defensive if you ask about where they have been.

8. Do they treat you BAD all of a sudden out of the clear blue?

9. Have they become secretive or paranoid ?

10. Do they always find fault with everything you do? Your Fat ..Your ugly....loser????

11. Do they protect their cell phone or computer with as password ?

12. Have they told you that they need "SPACE " ?

13. Have they limited their conversations with you drastically?

14. Do they act as if they don't want to spend time with you anymore?

15. Do they become upset or abrupt when you question their whereabouts or unexplained money missing?